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Conclusion
Be fair to yourself.
Analyzing chat writing is like analyzing any other written communication in life. Imagine
yourself trying to solve every life situation as a piece of the greater puzzle and before
jumping into conclusions regarding what's the big picture might be, try first to understand
each and every piece you have at hand and in a calm, flexible and methodically put all the
pieces together with a vision in mind and enjoy the beauty of the greater picture.
It's a process that can be fun and easy or hard and challenging, at times, but it is something
that we have to deal with each day and in the end it's what helps give our lives meaning.
Whether we are happy or unhappy depends totally on your perception to things in your life
and the way you chose to handle them.
Unfortunately many people fail to understand others because of their personal perception to
life in general; they tend to judge others without being open-minded and looking for the
reasons behind the behavior.
This stereotype behavior does not give anyone leverage over another person in a relation-
ship, and no one ever comes out of it a winner.
On the other hand if you look to understand the reason behind the behavior, believing in the
good nature of people, you will make yourself and others happy. It is that simple.
Being critical of others is the reason behind one's unhappiness and restlessness in their rela-
tionships. Life is so much better if you choose to put yourself in others shoes and look to
understand their behaviors. Make a habit of looking through your friends' eyes to gain un-
derstanding of their reasoning.
Empower yourself with self-development training as it is very beneficial to the quality of
your life. We all have the same need and look for friends and relationships with people who
can understand us, without the need to explain ourselves. You can be that person, just keep
in mind that analyzing any situation is as simple as this:
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Gather all the given facts.
