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Slow reply:
When you see yourself waiting too long to get a reply from someone, two important
things must be kept in mind. The first thing is that they might have been busy with
something else at that moment, and/or the second thing is that in real life, it is usually hard
to get a reply from them. It is better to EXPECT that when you call or talk to them face to
face in real life, because as we said before, chatting manners are lasting manners.
We of course don't want to think of a third and fourth options of that they might be angry
with us or/and they don't want to talk to us. We are well aware as individuals and know
how to handle relationships and we will talk to people who are actually willing to talk to
us.
So let's drop those options and let me tell you about my experience with my little sister -
although she might kill me for this- so anyways; Whenever I chatted with her online I
would wait for at least three minutes or so before getting a reply from her. And it is not
much of a difference from calling her at home, my voice would die on me I swear and
only when I no longer have a strength to call her some more only then she would show off
the stairs and say (honey did you call me!). I'm like !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no I was just trying my
vocals!
And like my lovely sister like many other people we meet in life, they give little attention
to the importance of the fast reply and how others might feel while waiting for your reply.
You are not only wasting their time, you are practically stealing their time. If minutes are
not important to you it doesn't mean it's not important to someone else, and it defiantly
does not mean that we have the right to decide whether it is or it is not.
The same is true in reverse. If you hate waiting on others for a reply, then it's better not to
keep others waiting for YOUR reply.
Constantly misunderstands you:
Our purpose here is to spot some traits you might be confronted with during chatting with
others, for it can help you in better understanding those who are around you.
Understanding people gives you power and power gives you a patient merciful perspect-
ive towards them. Understanding people gives you happiness for you can deal with them
