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People sitting at a table next to you may themselves start
a conversation with you, especially if you are alone. Once
they realise you are from another country a different point
of view, ah ha! What an opportunity for discussion!
Answer their question or
comment in French if you possibly
can. Show your willingness for
further conversation by offering
observations on the same or a
different topic.
The main topics to avoid are: a person's age, what he does
for a living and how much money he makes. Americans note:
the very 'ice-breaker' question that starts most conversations
in American, “What do you do?” is strictly none-of-your-
business in polite conversation in France, even at private
parties among friends.
'Their language... is their national
monument.'
—Sixty Million Frenchmen
Can't Be Wrong
Speak Softly, Especially in English
Whatever you talk about, especially in public spaces, remember
to moderate your voice! Even a normal volume, in a shop or at a
restaurant, will disturb others and will be considered very rude.
The French love to talk, but they are extremely courteous of
other people's desire for silence (and privacy) in public places. No
one but your interlocutor should be aware you are speaking. This
is easier to remember when you are alone.
Most of us who travel have been embarrassed by our fellow
countrymen speaking too loudly in their own language. Having
one or more of your own countrymen along with you anywhere
puts you into a little cultural 'bubble' of your own. Suddenly, the
culture around you doesn't count.
Remember to moderate your voice. And remind your friends
or your partner. That is the golden rule of conversation in France.
So, what are you going to talk about? Ideas! The French
are well-informed about world politics, history and the arts.
They will have opinions and they will be interested in yours.
Your most important preparation as a conversationalist,
besides learning the language itself, will be a willingness
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