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Most of us learn these new rules by observation. Table
manners, for example. The tools we use, how we use them,
what we do with our arms, elbows, hands and mouths,
all essentials of 'good table manners' will take some re-
examination in France.
The French eat mostly with their fork in the left hand
and their knife in the right. This
is similar to the English but
the opposite of the Americans.
The French are l exible on this
point, however, and sometimes
will attack a bowl of pasta with
a spoon in the left hand and a fork in the right. It is not a
serious point. But speaking loudly is, especially in a small,
crowded restaurant.
In New York, one expects a certain noise level and shouts
to be heard over it. In France, this is never necessary. The
French respect the rights of others to a pleasant meal in
quiet conversation, even in a restaurant. Try to respect theirs.
Adapting to a new culture, like learning a new language,
takes observation, sensitivity, imagination and practice. You
also need to be patient, with yourself and everyone else. They
really do have good reasons for their peculiar tendencies.
And it is not about you. Keep your sense of humour. Laugh
at your ignorance or your little failures and try again.
Stretching outside your own culture enriches your
perspectives on the world. As with physical i tness, the
more you practise reaching out, the better you become.
And the more you can enjoy the French and their wonderful
country. This topic is full of 'stretching' exercises. Here is
just one to start.
'How many cares one loses when
one decides not to be something,
but to be someone.'
—Gabrielle 'Coco' Chanel
GIVING AND GETTING DIRECTIONS—
THE FIRST DANCE
One of the i rst things a visitor needs in a new place is
directions. Most travellers carry a map and if you don't speak
any French, you best carry one too. If you do speak some
French, you will i nd the French endlessly willing to help you
out. The French love to give and get directions. It is one of the
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